Confidence is easy to spot and harder to woo. She shows up wearing whatever she damn well pleases and a genuine smile.

Authentic and unconventional, Confidence smiles inwardly when she overhears someone say she’s quirky.

Striking rather than beautiful, Confidence knows who she is and what she stands for. She always has an interesting story to share and seems to effortlessly balance innovative and wholesome.

She creates her own roadmap, plotting it out as she goes.

Confidence is inclusive and once you’ve played with her you want more of her nourishing and compellingly spiced company. But she can also be elusive, even to those who know her well.

Yet, she is a friend worth cultivating, no matter how much time and effort it takes.

So how do you make friends with Confidence?

Ask her to meditate.

Mediation is a great way to engage with Confidence for a couple reasons. First, it provides the time and space to listen to the inane inner-critic that tends to spout off inside our head, which in turn, helps us disengage with and eventually quiet down that voice. Then, in the silence that is left, we’re able to find our true spirit, which Confidence loves and celebrates.

Let her get to know the real you.

Scientists estimate that the probability of our being born is about one in 400 trillion. This number is based on the concept that the amount of available DNA vastly outnumbers the number of actual people.

And it sounds like a huge number until you consider what it doesn’t take into account.

One in 400 trillion doesn’t include the probability that your mom and dad would meet, which is about one in 20,000. It also doesn’t consider the probability that they would stay together long enough to have a child and that the right sperm would meet the right egg to produce you. (A one in 400 quadrillion chance, give or take a few.) It also leaves out the fact that your ancestors had to live to an age to reproduce and then do so.

In other words, you are a unique miracle and who wouldn’t want to be friends with a one-of-a-kind phenomenon?

Don’t pretend to be something you’re not.

Confidence knows the difference between arrogant and assured. Find those areas in which you genuinely shine and share them with Confidence. Even if they’re unconventional, I promise Confidence will help you find their relevance and application.

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